I stuffed my last cardboard box of personal belongings into the cargo hold of my girlfriend’s Rav4, jumped into the passenger seat, and waited while she fussed over a map with directions to our new home. Darlene was like that - a stickler for details. She flipped her shoulder length hair out of her eyes for the umpteenth time and squinted to read the tiny print. Mapmakers tended to hide the most critical information in the smallest print known to man.
Finally finished, she turned to me and smiled. “Let’s go!” She put the Rav into drive and we were on our way. We were going to start a new life off the grid.
Darlene was a smart, feisty little brown-haired woman, just under five feet five inches tall, with small breasts, shoulder length hair, and a freckled baby face.
Darlene and I moved in together to save money when my landlord evicted me from my apartment for nonpayment of rent. We believed that two could live as cheaply as one. We were right, two could live as cheaply as one, but only for half as long.
We met at a local tavern where we developed an unlikely May-December relationship. She played the part of May at the youthful age of 35 years. I fulfilled the role of December at the tender age of 67.
Through the process of elimination, we had become drinking buddies at our local tavern. I’m not sure “buddies” is the correct word. More often than not, we were the last people still standing when the barkeep bellowed out, “Last call for alcohol!”
Initially geography was our common bond. The tavern, built in the 1890s, featured a Walnut and Mahogany bar with an odd little ‘L’ shaped hook at the far corner of the saloon. The bar and a back wall of brick formed a naturally cozy little alcove large enough to accommodate three bar stools.
According to local legend, the original owner ordered the hook’s construction to allow him to observe activities of untrustworthy bartenders behind the bar while also keeping an eye on equally untrustworthy patrons. The voyeur and hermit in me loved the location and I had it all to myself for several months until the day Darlene arrived. She also loved the strategic location.
Like commuters sharing an across town bus, we gradually got used to each other’s presence. Familiarity grew comfortable and gave way to conversation as we observed the ebb and flow of tavern life.
It all started with casual flirting. She flirted. I was casual.
Hell, she flirted with everyone: Men, women, and even the bartender’s mangy tomcat. While I enjoyed the sometimes-risky banter, I never considered Darlene as potential girlfriend material. She was a young vixen and I was an old wolf. I amused myself trying to sneak a peek down her blouse or up her skirt when I thought she wasn’t looking.
One Friday night the stars governing our relationship aligned like the bars on a slot machine. Heads turned as Darlene strutted into the tavern in a blur of legs, cleavage, and the predatory smile of a fox. Her outfit left little to the imagination. Her mini-dress must have been a belt in a previous life and her tissue thin blouse was unbuttoned down to her navel. She wore no bra.
“That’s a nice outfit you are almost wearing,” I did a double take when she hopped up on the barstool next to mine.
“Panties optional dress code?” I nodded as I filed that image into my long-term memory vault.
“Like it? I’m going to get laid tonight. One of these stud-muffins is going home with me,” she chuckled with a little shiver and scanned the bar for targets of opportunity. I grimaced, envy flavored a bit oddly by jealously. What a curious blend of emotions for a virtual stranger?
I did an inventory of my own.
Most of the men in the tavern looked like drop-outs from Weight Watchers. I had recently gone from 215 to 185 pounds. I felt authorized to gloat.
Wives or girlfriends escorted most of the men. Boyfriends escorted a few others. Darlene’s field of viable targets was limited unless she lowered her standards.
I pitied the lucky guy who won Darlene’s attention. She had the uncanny ability to read people like a book and play them like a deck of cards.
“Complements of the house,” Our curious barkeep did a visual inventory of his own as he set a beautifully mixed and handcrafted White Russian in front of Darlene.
She took a small sip and savored it like a gourmet, “Perfect!” tilted her head back and wolfed it down in one long gulp. Yikes! Talk about power drinking.
Darlene hopped down from her seat, and Like Alexander the great, set out to conquer the known world.
I had to admire her style. She was the Alpha-Fox loose in the henhouse, radiating sexual availability like a neon sign in the night. Darlene was in a class by herself and that was a problem. She sparkled like a diamond in a coal bin and scared the shit out of the men she approached. If anything, she was too beautiful and too self-assured. The men she flirted with as she worked her way around the tavern were flattered, flustered, and fearful of her attention. None of them dared to take the bait.
After ten or fifteen minutes of flagrant flirting Darlene returned to her seat to regroup and re-fuel. Our bartender presented her with another complementary White Russian as his sacrifice to the Gods of wishful thinking.
“Thank you so much. You are such sweetheart. Can I have another one to keep this one company,” Darlene touched his hand and if her smile had been any warmer, the barkeep would have erupted into flame.
A few moments later, our generous drink master returned with three tall White Russians. “One is for you and the other two are honor guards for the dead soldiers,” he pointed to the two empty glasses.
“I love this drink,” she inhaled the beverage, chugging it down in one long slurp. I raised one eyebrow in puzzlement. How can anyone love a drink without taking the time to appreciate the subtle by-play of flavors?
Thrust quenched for the moment, Darlene resumed her quest for tonight’s bed partner. Her second expedition of seduction ended in bewildered frustration.
“What the fucking hell? I usually have to beat men off with a stick,” shaking her head in disgust, she demolished another White Russian.
“Maybe you should offer to beat them off with a stick, you know, fifty shades of kinky?” Darlene gave me a hard look. She was not amused.
“Why? Do you want to get beat off with a stick?” she smiled before dispatching the last White Russian.
“Hell no! I hate splinters.” I said.
“He shoots. He scores!” Darlene laughed as she raised her index finger and traced a point on the invisible blackboard in the air. “Nice one.”
I shrugged my shoulders. I could feel the rising heat of a blush. I squirmed in my seat under her gaze.
As Darlene studied me, her dark look of frustration gradually brightened and her eyes sparkled as her grim expression transformed into the predatory smile of a fox.
“I’m as horney as hell. Wanna fuck?” she leaned into me until our noses touched while her hand moved to my knee and slowly slid along the inside of my leg.
I answered by placing my hand on her knee and mirrored her journey of exploration.
“Your place or mine?” I whispered. It was as cliché as shit, but I couldn’t help myself.
What could I say? She had just made me an offer I couldn’t refuse.
Thus began our May-December love affair.
We became romantically involved as much out of laziness as out of lust. Neither of us cared to invest the necessary time to search for the perfect partner so we settled for close enough for right now. After we moved in together, I would joke was that I was ‘robbing the cradle’ when I took her to bed. She would always laugh and respond, ’I guess that would make me a grave robber.”
Two things attracted me to Darlene. The first was her personality. She was so easy going that I once tried to give her the nickname, Lake Placid. Still waters run deep and it didn’t end well.
“Okay Dennis, that was a twofer,” the book she was reading sailed across the room, missing my head by less than an inch.
“Watch it you nearly hit me! What the hell is a twofer?”
“A twofer is the first and last time something happens. I hate nicknames. Why the fuck would I want to be named after a stagnant pond?” Her smile was a weird combo of mischief and annoyance. I took pet names off my to-do-list.
Everyone needs a hobby and sex was her diversion from work. She collected orgasms like some folks collected postage stamps.
After a few months together, the real-estate development company in which Darlene had invested fifteen years of her life went belly-up, and then her last two paychecks bounced. The bounced checks set up a cascading overdraft chain reaction.
Darlene’s rent check bounced, along with about 25 or 30 personal checks; each bad check racked up a $35 bank charge, $25-30 in returned check merchant fees, and her account soon was bleeding red ink by several thousand dollars. The certified letter ordering our eviction was the last straw. Our financial camel lay mortally wounded, its back broken beyond repair. We needed a new place to live, and we needed it fast.
We crisscrossed Denver and the surrounding suburbs chasing every “For Rent” sign we could find. We always came up a day late or a dollar short.
“Well, if you hear anything, please give me a call. Thank you,” Darlene frowned as she hung up the phone. She looked at me, turned slightly and studied the calendar hanging on the refrigerator door, looked back into my eyes.
“That was our last best lead, we’re screwed,” Darlene slumped in her chair.
We sat across from each other at the kitchen table as, like an unwanted house guest, a shroud of gloom settled over the room. Out of options we ran out of time. Eviction day was less than 72 hours away.
Darlene’s posture suddenly changed as she sat upright in her chair as the corner of her mouth turned upwards and a smile lit up her eyes. “Damn, can’t believe I forgot ’em,” she slapped the palm of her hand on the table and let out a laugh.
“Dennis, how would you like to live on a comune?”
“Huh?“What kinda random question is this and where is it going? Darlene’s exotice view of life trended tpward the spiritual rather than the religious. I braced myself for her answer, “What kind of Hippy Village are we talking about?”
“Hippy? I’m not talking about Woodstock my love. I’ve got friends from college living in an off the grid cabin in the Rockies. They owe me some money, maybe we can stay with them.”
“What’s their address” If you learn where someone lives you can start to make good guesses as to their culture.
“Honey, they don’t have an address and they’re not on a road,” Darlene moved to the living room sofa and I followed.
“How far are they from the road?” This was getting interesting. The closer to the road, the more connected they would be to conventional reality. Every commune has a personality ranging from boring to batshit crazy. We sat together on the couch.
“Fifty miles give or take,” she leaned into me as she sat next to me.
“About fifteen years. We were friends back in college.”
“What kind of friends?” if they had been living off the grid for 15-years this group had something going for it.
“You know, friends who help friends. Anyway they are heavy duty into the survivalist movement. They might let us stay with them.” Any group holding its own for fifteen years might be an answer to our current housing crisis, it depended on the depth of the batshit. Too deep would be too weird.
“Okay, you’ve got my attention,” I gave her a kiss, “Tell me everything you know. Who are these guys?”
We talked until there was no more to say, “Stay or go. Your choice. Do you want to give them a try - at least for a few weeks?” Darlene asked.
Living as amateur survivalists, her friends occupied an off-the-grid cabin located somewhere in the Rocky Mountains about 250 miles west of Denver.
The more I thought about it, the better it sounded. Living off the grid far from civilization was an attractive alternative to living in a cardboard box behind a Safeway Supermarket. Besides, I liked the high country and I had made several hiking trips into the mountains while stationed at Lowry Air Force Base prior to shipping out for an all-expense paid tour of Vietnam.
“Hummm, I’m in. Let’s see if your friends will let us stay with them,” I watched and listened as she dictated a text message requesting sanctuary for us, and shared her joy when she received an affirmative response a few minutes later.
“Heigh-ho, heigh-ho, It’s off the grid we go,” I sang and Darlene joined in with a verse of her own, “Heigh-ho, heigh-ho, off with clothes we go,” as she turned the dwarf song into a stripper-gram for two.
More efficient than artful, she had me barefoot from my toes to my chin within a minute.
Naked and laughing we sealed the deal by morning with a wild session of lovemaking. We were going to make a new life for ourselves. We were going off the grid.
The next two days passed in blur as we raced to pack what we needed for our new lives. Our Rav4 got a new set of high traction, off road tires along with a complete tune up and oil change. We sold everything we couldn’t take with us. What we couldn’t sell, we gave away. We were done with Denver.
We departed a few hours after sunrise and followed US-70 out of Denver. Within an hour we were up into the mountains and and four hours after that we hit the town of Rifle and broke for lunch. I asked Darlene to stop at the local Smoke Shop. I had learned that our new home wasn’t only remote; it was in the middle of fucking nowhere. The idea of running out of cigarettes a million miles from resupply was frightening.
I assumed our new off-the-grid home had some power, so I purchased an electric rolling machine. I then covered my bet; I bought two hand-powered rolling machines just to be safe. I then cleaned the shop out of their inventory of Zen rolling papers (three cases), along with 60 pounds of tobacco, two hundred cheap disposable lighters, and five tobacco pipes.
Darlene stood next to me as the cashier rang up the largest single purchase in the shop’s history.
“Are you out of your mind? Who spends that kind of money on cigarettes? Seriously, we’re broke and almost homeless,” she shook her head.
“Sweetheart, where we’re going, money ain’t going to be of much use, so, why not,” I added another handful of Bic lighters to the pile of merchandise.. The total bill put a $1,600 dent in my bank account (did I mention that I’m addicted to cigarettes?).
The Zen cigarette tubes and 60 lbs. of tobacco were too bulky to fit in the Rav’s cargo bay, so I ended up securing my newly acquired stash to the vehicle’s roof. I wrapped everything up in a tarp and triple tied it down with rope and bungee cords. The car looked like a band of gypsies owned it by the time I finished.
We turned north on Route 13, passed the town of Meeker two hours later, and we turned onto a winding dirt road leading up into the mountains. About 45 minutes later Darlene announced, ‘It won’t be long now’ for the twentieth time.
Darlene was a bright young lady. She had programmed a series of waypoints her friends had e-mailed her into her vehicle’s GPS system. We followed the dirt road through a thick pine forest until the road devolved into not much more than a poorly marked trail. The trail shrunk down to a path as we continued onward, our path soon became nothing more than a series of GPS waypoints connected by miles of barren rock as we climbed above the tree line.
I finally asked Darlene after an hour of driving ever deeper into the mountain wilderness, “How long is not long?”
“We should be there within the hour,” Darlene answered.
“Christ Almighty! Your friends aren’t only off the grid; they’re off the fucking map. Do you have any idea of where we really are?” I complained.
Darlene just shrugged her shoulders, smiled, and kept driving.
Our Rav4 reached a ridge crest, which afforded us with a splendid view of a long, thin U-shaped valley nestled between two towering mountain ranges an hour later. We could see a building almost lost in the distance at the far end of the vale.
The structure was considerably larger than it had seemed from the ridge as we approached the dwelling. The rustic cabin looked like it was growing out of the side of the mountain upon closer examination. It was as much a log mansion as it was a log cabin. Solar panels covered the south facing steel roof, and a farmer’s porch wrapped around three sides of the cabin. The overall appearance was Buck Rogers meets Davy Crockett.
The sun had disappeared behind the snow-capped mountains. Night and the thermometer were both falling fast by the time we rolled to a stop in front of the cabin. A welcoming committee of at least a dozen women had gathered on the porch. They erupted in shouts of joy and hand waves when Darlene emerged from the vehicle. The boisterous welcome turned to silence when I stepped out of the car. It was as if someone had pulled the plug on the PA system.